The Last Ten Years

By in Family, Looking back, On kids

The other night – while doing the dishes – I got to thinking about how much my life has changed since the birth of my daughter –  ten years ago.

I feel like so many things have been put on hold, hence the nom de guerre “erstwhile adventurer,” but there are also so many ways my life has improved since becoming a father . . .

Truly of all of the things I have learned in the past 10 years, the most important is the selflessness that comes from being a parent.    There is no way to understand this by having a dog or cat, babysitting or spending the day with your niece or nephew.  There is a mental and emotional change that happens when their small lives depend on your actions.   Parents will understand this.    Others will not.

Thinking of the past  decade, I quickly listed out some things I’ve done while being so busy:

  1. Become a father to four awesome kids
  2. Was invited to and joined the American Mountain Men
  3. Renewed my EMT license twice
  4. Lost two incredible dogs, but gained one barking fool dog and an excellent farm dog (that are both also great)
  5. Was part of an FBI Raid.  Seriously everyone should try this, but only once (bad for the nerves)
  6. Got a travel trailer
  7. Was named Manager of the Year at my job
  8.  Bought land and started homesteading

So for not doing much, it sure is doing a lot.  🙂